How to Stop Rapid Ejaculation

Making sex last longer is something that most men want to achieve. The trouble is over 40% of guys suffer with rapid ejaculation, which basically means they can't last long enough to pleasure a woman properly.
This article contains two proven ways to have longer lasting sex.

1. The best way to stop rapid ejaculation is to forget about it. Half the problem is that it can take over your brain and all you can think about before and during sex is how long before you start ejaculating. What you should do is relax and empty your mind before sex and put all your thoughts into making your woman happy. So next time try giving her oral until she is almost at the point of climax before you enter her. This will help you stop rapid ejaculation by taking your mind off your problems.

2. Some men say that the reason they can't have longer lasting sex is because of their hyper sensitive penis. Well this is easily solved by masturbating 10 minutes before making love. This will leave your penis numb and help you last longer. If possible try to do it twice for even better results. If this doesn't add much time then try a desensitising cream or spray to numb you even more.

There are a lot of other ways to stop rapid ejaculation but the tips above can give you longer lasting sex in no time. Rest assured there will be a technique out there that will work for you.

How to Treat Rapid Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation affects about 30-40% of men and is believed to be the most common male sexual dysfunction. The good news however is that in spite of its prevalence, there are several treatments available for men who suffer from rapid ejaculation.

Among the many therapies recommended for premature ejaculation, the "stop-start" technique is considered to be an effective option because it enables the man to learn control. Usually, the premature release of sperm is said to result from the inability of the man to control his arousal level. By using the stop-start technique, he becomes more aware of his sexual arousal level and he can immediately pause all sexual stimulation in order to delay ejaculation.

This technique coupled with some psychotherapy has been proven to help more men deal with this problem. Psychotherapy sessions work better when the man's sexual partner is involved in the sessions, and participates in unraveling some of the underlying reasons for the man's rapid ejaculation. This method works well with men (and women) who are committed to find solutions to rapid ejaculation on a long term basis.
Often, it is fear or embarrassment that prevents a man suffering from premature ejaculation to seek help. In a study conducted by an Australian firm, it was found out that 70% of men who suffers from sexual dysfunctions refuse to seek professional help for their condition because of embarrassment.

 64% of the men surveyed said that they waited for years before they were able to admit the problem and seek help, while 82% of the same group said that they were unaware that premature ejaculation can be treated.

Early detection of the problem is important. It will save a man from suffering unnecessary anxiety over his sexual performance. Relationships have been known to break up because of sexual problems that affect other areas of the couple's life.

If you are suffering from rapid ejaculation, do not hesitate to seek professional help to address the problem earlier. Overcome the embarrassment and do not think that the condition is hopeless, because it is not.